Having trouble in life and/or career?
Think about the following:
- Trouble is like fire in the furnace that removes impurities from gold-your gold.
- Trouble is like a plow to soil being prepared for seed planting-seeds of a great life.
- Trouble is like an inconvenient truth haunting you to move out of what’s familiar and comfortable.
- Trouble and pain are relatives, and they both are megaphones for a deaf world (thanks to C.S. Lewis for that analogy).
- Trouble is like a laser in a master surgeon’s hands that focuses exactly where the need is.
- Trouble should move you to ask for help.
- Trouble is like the rainstorm that precedes the sun and rainbow.
If you’re still in sales (you make your living by what revenue you bring in for the organization) and haven’t moved into creating lasting value, then this post is for you.
Here are my suggestions for salespeople in our age of constant change:
- Stop thinking about yourself. If you didn’t notice, it shows. Your prospective and existing customers want you to think about them.
- Stop assuming that your doing me a favor by introducing your product/service to me. Arrogance has only one reward-NO.
- If you are not creating real value (the customer defines this, not you), then start. You find out by asking. Knowledge flows when you do that.
- Make your customer a priority. That means responding to their emails or phone calls on the same day they send/call. When a customer doesn’t feel like a priority they leave.
- If you’re with a company that sees customers as a means-to-an-end, leave. Customers will breathe a sigh of relief that they won’t have to deal with being treated like cattle.
- Learn the art of subtlety. Listen to Puccini or have a glass of 2000 Barolo as a start.
- Stop seeing yourself as a salesperson. Customers are tired of being sold.
We need more people willing to be striking and brilliant in the discipline of creating value, while generating revenue. Anything less is robbery.
I added the Twitter widget today. You can view on the left-hand column.
The power of genius comes when you realize that you must reinvent. Maybe all these tough times come to prepare you for the next lifetime.
Your lifetime is made up of multiple lifetimes.
The April 25 Epic Living Hour radio show will focus on the art of listening. I’ve found that listening is a key that unlocks places you’ve never imagined you’d have access to. I’m not talking about everything profound, but the things that form your legacy. For example, listening to a 7 year-old child who wants to tell you about the wonder of swimming in the summertime. I had that opportunity yesterday, and I’m glad I listened.
It also has to do with your career/business life. Are you catching all that you should? Is your hearing blocked by your focus on the material at-hand? Is something or someone seeking your attention (full)? Have you started to reinvent yourself today?
Diamonds (the most valuable things in life and work) will not scream for your fancy. Diamonds are subtle and beautiful all at the same time. You must listen to find them. Tune in tomorrow at 12:30 PM EDT to learn more. Details can be found here.
The below scene from The Legend of Bagger Vance will give you some further context (pay close attention to the part with Bobby Jones).
Got a chance to getaway last week to a place I’d never been before. It’s an area called Hocking Hills (southeastern Ohio). I new it was a great trip, because when I got back to our city everything looked different. I’m beginning to believe that a getaway/hideaway is measured by how the familiar appears upon returning. Photos are below.
In America we are in the midst of an election cycle that’s interesting to say the least. The following is from an article I wrote last November. I believe sets an appropriate tone.
I’m always fascinated by how leaders (good and bad) use words to get people to follow. It’s a very powerful reality when you think about it. What’s critical is why a leader wants you to follow. Often it is not the subject (global warming, quarterly profits, keeping a relationship going, etc.) at hand. Sometimes the leader will use certain words to connect with what motivates you. Sometimes the leader will only use words that they think you want to hear. Bad news is never far behind words used to please your itching ears. For example; “The plant is still viable and no shut-down is in the foreseeable future.”
Leaders and followers have one thing in common; both tend to wear masks. No where is this more prevalent than in the corporate landscape. When you have that much power and money floating around, you might as well call it a Greek Tragedy. Some masks are used to hide scars that have been inside for years, while others are used to deceive. Regardless of the intent, masks are not a good thing.
Consider former Vice President Al Gore. Why does he want you to follow him on his crusade to save the planet? He has stated that it’s about the spiritual and the moral. Maybe it is…maybe it is something completely different. In a recent article on CNN/Money.com, Mr. Gore said it’s the single most important thing we (citizens of planet earth I guess) should be focusing on. You may agree or disagree, but you can’t deny the power behind the words he uses.
One of the greatest hungers plaguing us today is our desire for authenticity. We’ve become suspicious because we’ve been sold the bill of goods more times than we care to remember. Some have followed the road of cynicism, while others are still looking for this elusive bird.
No human becoming can know for sure what sits inside of another person’s heart (good reason not to be in the judgment business). So why not do some deeper looking before you decide to follow.
Here are some tips to act on:
• Ask the leader/leaders a lot of why questions. For example; "Why do you want this event/outcome to occur?" Then follow up with a why question to their answer. If the leader seems put off or disturbed (watch their eyes on this one), it might be a sign of insincerity.
• Don’t follow someone/something for fame and fortune. Those who do things for those two reasons are dwelling in the Land of Fake.
• Make sure your values/motives line up with the cause or leader.
• Look at the company the leader keeps. If they hang with devil, they normally will act like him.
• Seek the advice of someone who isn’t afraid to tell you the truth. What they say may hurt, but it could keep you from going over a cliff.
• Watch the body language. For example, observe the blinking of the eyes. If the leader blinks at a high rate, he or she might not be fully committed to what their speaking of.
I signed up for Twitter in late 2007. I didn’t really get it, even though I was inspired by Guy Kawasaki to do it. Who really wants to know what I’m up to?
Well fast forward and I got something from Penelope Trunk a couple of days ago. So I decided to give it another shot. So far, so good. Maybe enlightenment has set in since I first started, because I really like it. It’s short and sweet. Twitter gives me a portal to do that. I blog to inform and inspire in a detailed manner. I will Twitter to give quick shots and moment inspirations.
Some have said that Twitter is a head scratcher, but nothing could be further from the truth. Everyday life wraps a gift within 24 hours and I’ve found a way to give a few brilliant lights from my experiences.
The blog will continue to inform and enlighten in a detailed, what’s in it for you the reader way.
Start Twittering and discover how quick inspiration blossoms.
Money ain’t your friend. Easy for me to say, since I’m working inside of a start-up. You might think I’m about to rant about all my troubles with funding, accounts receivable and the like. But that’s not what this post is about-at all. Last Friday I wrote about Money and Security and I want to give you some more information to help your view of money. And you don’t have to leave what you do in order for everything to be ok. I writing to your eyes and the window it creates.
Money is a tool and should never be allowed to become your master. It should never be allowed to become a part of your identity or sense of worth. It should be a slave in the hands of a person of high character.
For the better of my soul and my family, I learned this the hard and root way. The root way means the change goes so deep there’s no turning back. By the way, the root way hurts. Experience is certainly wonderful and yet cruel (feels like that at times).
In my days in corporate America I only turned away for a moment and I was hooked. I was young, ambitious and very confident (a lethal mix). When success merges in, it creates a dangerous love affair. I wasn’t paying attention and very few in the organization loved me enough to say a single word. Especially those who were enjoying the party my drive provided them.
Part of my motivation in writing the book came from not wanting everyone else around or far from me miss the above. The Secret (chapter) titled; Don’t Chase Success is most relevant here. I know I can’t save the world, but I can (potentially) change the world. If I didn’t feel this way I wouldn’t be waking up everyday doing MMA against Goliath.
So here’s why money ain’t your friend:
- If left unchecked/mastered, it will drive a wedge between you and those you love. Money left to it’s own devices loves control and total loyalty. That leaves no room for love. My wife, during my days in corporate America, would softly consent when I said I needed to push a little further and higher. I didn’t realize what I was trading.
- Money comes and it goes. Bill and Warren have traded here.
- Money will tell you that small desires are far more important than dreams.
- When money becomes your identity, you begin to mask insecurities and pretend that a new this or that will make you feel better. It will, but only for a moment.
- All of these dangers apply to the poor and rich.
- If you don’t make money the slave, it will turn the table on you…slowly.
- Destiny is compromised when money is allowed have it’s way.
You must understand that this post is about a choice. You can change your view if you want to. You want to, don’t you?
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