If you live long enough you’ll experience emotional heartache. This can be ignored, but at your own cost. Usually the price is paid many years after the fact. You might be someone who likes to bury stuff, but in the end we all deal with the issue.
I have a brother who made a decision a long time ago to destroy his life. I’ll let you fill in the blank on how. His life has been a crucible for me. His example has given me clarity on how some things just don’t make sense…at least on this side of eternity. Twenty-five years of certain behaviors, and ironically he believes that life is as it should be. I have stopped looking for answers and I pray. Those are the only things that I have left.
Find your crucible and live out your intended life.