{"id":1059,"date":"2005-06-20T07:32:00","date_gmt":"2005-06-20T07:32:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/looking_for_mar\/"},"modified":"2005-06-20T07:32:00","modified_gmt":"2005-06-20T07:32:00","slug":"looking_for_mar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/looking_for_mar\/","title":{"rendered":"Looking for Margin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt\"><span face=\"Times New Roman\">I spent a good portion of this weekend coordinating a \u201cministry fair\u201d at my place of worship.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\">&nbsp; <\/span>I discovered what it feels like to work with people who know the art of encouragement.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\">&nbsp; <\/span>I wasn\u2019t the best person to lead this event, but I was \u201cguy\u201d anyway.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\">&nbsp; <\/span>Quite frankly, details suck the life out of me.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\">&nbsp; <\/span>I tend to be vision oriented\u2026it\u2019s the rhythm I dance to.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\">&nbsp; <\/span>That said, the event went well.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\">&nbsp; <\/span>Interestingly, one of my mentors (who happens to lead this group of people) seemed concerned about the amount of margin in the people.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\">&nbsp; <\/span>He was speaking a common problem in our culture; over commitment.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\">&nbsp; <\/span>We can all relate to that.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\">&nbsp; <\/span>I believe that it was Peter Drucker who said we need to focus on a few things and stop doing the rest.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\">&nbsp; <\/span>Here\u2019s a list to give you a hand in creating more \u201cmargin:\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt\">\n<p><span face=\"Times New Roman\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 1in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 1.0in\"><span face=\"Times New Roman\"><span style=\"mso-list: Ignore\">1.<span style=\"FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;\">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/span>If the event\/task is not in your \u201cstrength zone,\u201d then say no.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 1in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 1.0in\"><span face=\"Times New Roman\"><span style=\"mso-list: Ignore\">2.<span style=\"FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;\">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/span>Set aside time each week to reflect.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes\">&nbsp; <\/span>This should give you time to slow down and listen.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 1in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 1.0in\"><span face=\"Times New Roman\"><span style=\"mso-list: Ignore\">3.<span style=\"FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;\">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/span>There are only about five things that really matter in life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 1in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 1.0in\"><span face=\"Times New Roman\"><span style=\"mso-list: Ignore\">4.<span style=\"FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;\">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/span>Learn the art of saying \u201cno.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 1in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 1.0in\"><span face=\"Times New Roman\"><span style=\"mso-list: Ignore\">5.<span style=\"FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;\">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/span>Give, (time, money, encouragement, love, hope and anything else that will help others) this will give vast amounts of energy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I spent a good portion of this weekend coordinating a \u201cministry fair\u201d at my place of worship.&nbsp; I discovered what it feels like to work with people who know the art of encouragement.&nbsp; I wasn\u2019t the best person to lead this event, but I was \u201cguy\u201d anyway.&nbsp; Quite frankly, details suck the life out of&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1059","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1059","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1059"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1059\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1059"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1059"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1059"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}