{"id":1116,"date":"2013-11-27T19:24:12","date_gmt":"2013-11-27T19:24:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/?p=1116"},"modified":"2013-11-27T20:28:53","modified_gmt":"2013-11-27T20:28:53","slug":"the-crazy-part-of-thanksgiving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/the-crazy-part-of-thanksgiving\/","title":{"rendered":"The Crazy Part of Thanksgiving"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The crazy part of thanksgiving is we&#8217;re not that thankful-at least most of us. It&#8217;s not a conscious act that makes us un-thankful. Most people have good intentions. However, as you know, the road to hell is paved with good intentions.<\/p>\n<p>Can you feel me here?<\/p>\n<p>I used to wonder in my homeland why people tend to get thankful at Thanksgiving and during the general holiday season. I don&#8217;t any longer. It&#8217;s very clear that we Americans like <a href=\"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/the-trouble-with-entitlement\/\" target=\"_blank\">entitlement<\/a>. Yes, you heard me, we like entitlement(s). Look around and look within, the beast lives within. Whether we&#8217;re impatient for traffic to &#8220;get moving&#8221; or anger that we didn&#8217;t get a pat on the back from our employer, we feel like we&#8217;re owed.\u00a0I won&#8217;t even pull out my list of embarrassing things in my past that made me feel entitled. I live a different life now than I did in those days past. Just the same, I have to keep careful watch over my reactions to circumstances that don&#8217;t cater to me.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s some encouragement to consider:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Take a moment and ponder present or past losses. When you do that, you&#8217;ll find out what&#8217;s worth being thankful for<\/li>\n<li>Find some way to remind yourself daily to be thankful. I use my iCloud calendar to do this. Find a system that works for you<\/li>\n<li>Exit the stuff not worthy of the gift of time. I can&#8217;t figure this one for you, it&#8217;s a dance you must do alone<\/li>\n<li>If the herd says go left, you should think hard about going right. The herd got us into this constant state of distraction<\/li>\n<li>Read this <a href=\"http:\/\/mlb.mlb.com\/news\/article\/mlb\/michael-weiner-the-executive-director-of-the-major-league-baseball-players-association-to-be-laid-to-rest?ymd=20131121&amp;content_id=64118728&amp;vkey=news_mlb\" target=\"_blank\">profile<\/a> of a man who knew he was running out of time and did<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Happy Thanksgiving!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The crazy part of thanksgiving is we&#8217;re not that thankful-at least most of us. It&#8217;s not a conscious act that makes us un-thankful. Most people have good intentions. However, as you know, the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Can you feel me here? I used to wonder in my homeland why people&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,364,6,7],"tags":[1432,86,1445,39,75,1447,1446,1444,257,1230,814,67],"class_list":["post-1116","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-coaching","category-current-affairs","category-learning","category-wellbeing","tag-entitlement","tag-family","tag-helping-loving","tag-life","tag-life-choices","tag-michael-weiner","tag-mlb","tag-sacrifice","tag-thankfulness","tag-thanks","tag-thanksgiving","tag-work"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1116","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1116"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1116\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1117,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1116\/revisions\/1117"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1116"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1116"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1116"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}