{"id":126,"date":"2013-04-29T06:45:00","date_gmt":"2013-04-29T06:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/knowing-your-limits\/"},"modified":"2013-04-29T06:45:00","modified_gmt":"2013-04-29T06:45:00","slug":"knowing-your-limits","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/knowing-your-limits\/","title":{"rendered":"Knowing Your Limits"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>This post is from back in 2008. We&#39;ll need this in the future to come.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/epicliving.blogs.com\/.a\/6a00d8341c78f953ef00e552b04b958834-popup\" onclick=\"window.open( this.href, &#39;_blank&#39;, &#39;width=137,height=81,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0&#39; ); return false\" style=\"display: block;\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Navy Seals Insgnia\" border=\"0\" class=\"at-xid-6a00d8341c78f953ef00e552b04b958834 \" src=\"http:\/\/epicliving.blogs.com\/.a\/6a00d8341c78f953ef00e552b04b958834-800pi\" title=\"Navy Seals Insgnia\" \/><\/a>\n<\/p>\n<p>The above&#0160;insignia is for the <a class=\"zem_slink\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/United_States_Navy_SEALs\" rel=\"wikipedia\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"United States Navy SEALs\">U.S. Navy Seals<\/a>.&#0160; I didn&#39;t realize how significant the symbol was until I talked to Erik, whose brother is a Navy Seal.&#0160;<\/p>\n<p>Erik and I didn&#39;t talk much about war or fighting, but we did talk about knowing your limits.<\/p>\n<p>The Seals go through very difficult training in the pursuit of becoming elite.&#0160; A part of that training is <a class=\"zem_slink\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Discovery_%28observation%29\" rel=\"wikipedia\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Discovery (observation)\">discovering<\/a> your limits.&#0160; My understanding is when a Seal discovers their limits they are better prepared for the extreme situations inevitable in their job.&#0160; Some say enlightenment arrives as well with a discovery of one&#39;s limits.&#0160; I would agree.<\/p>\n<p>So how about you?&#0160;Have you discovered, and do you know your limits?&#0160; <\/p>\n<p>In years past I didn&#39;t want to know.&#0160; I thought knowing my limits would bring me too close to the &quot;brink.&quot;&#0160; So many times I chose the expedient and practical&#0160; The brink is good for you though.&#0160; I say this, knowing how painful it can be.&#0160; No one signs up for it (except maybe the Navy Seals) and many times we just want a break.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some ideas around discovering and knowing your limits:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>When the storms (business drop-off, health issues, job loss, relationship troubles) come, stop.&#0160; You&#39;re heading into a time of discovering&#0160;your limits.&#0160; Ironically, the choice is yours as to the staying and fighting.&#0160; You could choose an easy route to escape, and many do.<\/li>\n<li>Focus on what is being produced inside of you.&#0160; This is a future-forward perspective.&#0160; In other words, a seed is planted, but you don&#39;t see the fruit for some time to come.&#0160; You have to believe.<\/li>\n<li>Prepare for people to desert you.&#0160; It&#39;s not personal, but it is true.&#0160; Limits are markers for what many people see as dangerous, frightening or pure madness.&#0160; When you find someone willing to stick with you during your discovery and knowing, you&#39;ve found someone you can count on.&#0160; <\/li>\n<li>Don&#39;t get bitter or resentful over anything.<\/li>\n<li>Don&#39;t be too hard on yourself when the mistakes are made.&#0160; Mistakes are a part of the process.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The Navy Seals are an elite group of people.&#0160; They&#39;ve set a good example of what we all should be willing to do in our career, relationships, health and dreams.<\/p>\n<p>Discover and know your limits.<\/p>\n<fieldset class=\"zemanta-related\">\n<legend class=\"zemanta-related-title\">Related articles<\/legend>\n<div class=\"zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image\" style=\"margin: 0; 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