{"id":133,"date":"2013-03-29T07:05:00","date_gmt":"2013-03-29T07:05:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/an-update\/"},"modified":"2013-03-29T07:05:00","modified_gmt":"2013-03-29T07:05:00","slug":"an-update","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/an-update\/","title":{"rendered":"An Update"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I thought I would take some time to update you on my goings on. Specifically, from my post <em><a href=\"http:\/\/epicliving.blogs.com\/epic_living\/2013\/03\/the-week-that-was.html?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+blogs%2FElbu+%28Epic+Living%29\" target=\"_blank\">The Week That Was<\/a><\/em>. My story is a mixed bag. <\/p>\n<p>Fortunately, my wife landed with a new company on March 25. We were also able to get <a class=\"zem_slink\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Health_insurance\" rel=\"wikipedia\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Health insurance\">health insurance<\/a> much sooner than we initially thought, April 1 to be exact.<\/p>\n<p>This is all great news.<\/p>\n<p>The other side of the coin is helping my wife navigate the change. I was truly struck by the &quot;family spirit&quot; that was her working group. They were and are very close. They encouraged one another, consoled one another, they behaved in a way that close families do. The sad reality is they&#39;re not a family. At least not in the eyes of corporate America. It reminded me how easy it is for organizations and their people to live in two different realities. One <a class=\"zem_slink\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Reality\" rel=\"wikipedia\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Reality\">reality based<\/a> on caring and performance, the other on results and a thing called money. Obviously, great danger follows these opposites.<\/p>\n<p>Another striking result of this process is how little senior leaders know about communication. Specifically, how to say what needs to be said. 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