{"id":145,"date":"2013-02-06T06:45:00","date_gmt":"2013-02-06T06:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/steering-by-the\/"},"modified":"2013-02-06T06:45:00","modified_gmt":"2013-02-06T06:45:00","slug":"steering-by-the","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/steering-by-the\/","title":{"rendered":"Steering by the Stars"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>All of us get lost in the darkness<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dreamers learn to steer by the stars<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#0160; &#0160;&#0160; &#0160;&#0160; &#0160; &#8211;<a class=\"zem_slink\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Neil_Peart\" rel=\"wikipedia\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Neil Peart\">Neil Peart<\/a><\/p>\n<p>That lyric is from the song <em><a class=\"zem_slink\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Pass_%28song%29\" rel=\"wikipedia\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"The Pass (song)\">The Pass<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>What an appropriate verse to the theme of yesterday&#39;s <a href=\"http:\/\/epicliving.blogs.com\/epic_living\/2008\/03\/the-fire-of-fai.html\">post<\/a>.&#0160; Steering by the stars becomes important when traditional navigation becomes obsolete.&#0160; This skill is needed when times are tough, but even more important when things are going well (we tend to think we don&#39;t need any help when the road is silk paved).&#0160; Certainly, it is tough when darkness descends on a career or love.&#0160; The choice is ours as to how we will respond.&#0160; I for one, have not always responded well. <\/p>\n<p>I had a vivid dream once where I was asked to come on a journey at night.&#0160; The offer included a flashlight, so I felt secure in the knowledge that I would have enough light.&#0160; I took the offer and proceeded forward.&#0160; After some time, the flashlight began to dim and I realized the batteries were dying.&#0160; Realizing that I had come to far to turn back, I looked up and saw millions of stars.&#0160; I heard a voice that said, &quot;now you will learn your direction by the stars.&quot;&#0160; I woke up&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>That dream came to me just when I needed it.&#0160; It helped me understand the importance of <a class=\"zem_slink\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Learning\" rel=\"wikipedia\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Learning\">learning<\/a> and adapting.&#0160; You might be skeptical, you might even be laughing.&#0160; But the question remains; how do we steer <strong>when<\/strong> the light has ceased?<\/p>\n<p>Here are a some tips:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>If things are going well now, start learning about the principles of navigating through tough times.&#0160; It will be painful at first because you may think the time would be better served enjoying the fruits.&#0160; See the financial services industry about the foolishness of enjoying the fruits. <\/li>\n<li>Don&#39;t go it alone.&#0160; Hire a coach, find a mentor or seek out others who have experience (real experience) under their belt. <\/li>\n<li>If you&#39;re in the darkness right now, then don&#39;t give up.&#0160; But be sure you&#39;re on the right terrain.&#0160; In other words, if you were never excited about being a social media guru, don&#39;t keep convincing yourself that you need to stay one. <\/li>\n<li>If you don&#39;t expect your path to be easy, then you will learn what you need to learn. <\/li>\n<li>Take time to rest.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<fieldset class=\"zemanta-related\">\n<legend class=\"zemanta-related-title\">Related articles<\/legend>\n<div class=\"zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image\" style=\"margin: 0; 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The offer included a flashlight, so I felt secure in the knowledge that I would have enough light.  I took the offer and proceeded forward.  After some time, the flashlight began to dim and I realized the batteries were dying.  Realizing that I had come to far to turn back, I looked up and saw millions of stars.  I heard a voice that said, &#8220;now you will learn your direction by the stars.&#8221;  I woke up&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,6],"tags":[155,438,440,436,439,58,437,57,433,435,56,434],"class_list":["post-145","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-coaching","category-learning","tag-direction","tag-directions","tag-found","tag-guidance","tag-lost","tag-neil-peart","tag-roadmap","tag-rush","tag-steering","tag-steering-by-the-stars","tag-the-pass","tag-the-stars"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/145","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=145"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/145\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=145"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=145"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=145"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}