{"id":1695,"date":"2015-10-20T06:35:05","date_gmt":"2015-10-20T10:35:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/?p=1695"},"modified":"2015-10-19T21:31:33","modified_gmt":"2015-10-20T01:31:33","slug":"the-end-of-hurry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/the-end-of-hurry\/","title":{"rendered":"The End of Hurry"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/norwaytunnel.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-1696\" src=\"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/norwaytunnel-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"norwaytunnel\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/norwaytunnel-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/norwaytunnel-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/norwaytunnel.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I spent a lot of years being in a hurry. As I look back, I wonder what for. Learning is about the only thing.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I&#8217;ve found the end of hurry.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">In my twenties, it felt like being a dog where your master is immaturity. I ran from, and to, thing after thing. I was full of anger, energy and arrogance. There was some tenderness and compassion. My wife was the one who brought those two things out. I honestly think she felt sorry for me in all of my storms.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">In my thirties, I was still in a hurry. In this frame I saw things to be conquered and possessed. I had my eye on what was to be found over the horizon. I started to hear more friends and advisors say things like; &#8220;be here now&#8221; and &#8220;take time to reflect.&#8221; I wasn&#8217;t having any of it, at least in my behavior. I was at war, the tale of two Eric&#8217;s.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">In my forties (now and coming to a close), I discovered how precious time is. Certainly, the reality of what&#8217;s left dawned on me. The more important awakening was:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>About 20% of each day is where the gold is found. This is the stuff I put intense energy and effort into. The other 80% won&#8217;t be remembered or represent any true value in the end, and the end matters because you don&#8217;t know when it will be. Here&#8217;s the trick of it, God gives each of us something beautiful to discover (God, music, relationships, wine, a starlit night) every day. It&#8217;s not obvious to the person in a hurry and most of the time they miss it. When you find it (that 20%) the intensity of the moment lasts a lifetime. It is happiness, it is joy, it was what I was looking for. By the way, <em>it really found me<\/em>.<\/li>\n<li>Yoga, yes yoga, grabbed me in an unexpected way. The movements and the wonderful breathes slowed me down and centered me. No exercise has meant more in my journey.<\/li>\n<li>Wine taught me to linger. I don&#8217;t know anyone who gulps wine. As I started drinking wine for the health benefits, I found an added benefit of slowing down and enjoying my dinners and the accompanying wines. I didn&#8217;t realize what a life lesson it would bring me. Wine whispers to me to linger and slow down.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">So, are you in a hurry?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I spent a lot of years being in a hurry. As I look back, I wonder what for. Learning is about the only thing. I&#8217;ve found the end of hurry. In my twenties, it felt like being a dog where your master is immaturity. I ran from, and to, thing after thing. I was full&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1696,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,7],"tags":[1828,722,823,180,1808,1827,271,542,252],"class_list":["post-1695","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-learning","category-wellbeing","tag-age","tag-busyness","tag-epic-living","tag-eric-pennington","tag-pursuits","tag-the-end-of-hurry","tag-time","tag-wine","tag-yoga"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1695","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1695"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1695\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1701,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1695\/revisions\/1701"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1696"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1695"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1695"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1695"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}