{"id":1784,"date":"2016-03-15T08:01:17","date_gmt":"2016-03-15T12:01:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/?p=1784"},"modified":"2016-03-15T08:01:42","modified_gmt":"2016-03-15T12:01:42","slug":"living-in-the-incongruent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/living-in-the-incongruent\/","title":{"rendered":"Living In the Incongruent"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Are you living in the incongruent<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Some years ago, my life was full of incongruent statements and values. I could quickly tell you how important God was to me, and then find myself obsessing over a business meeting yet to come. The irony was not many could call me out on it. The credit for that was found in my “Oscar-worthy” performances. Before you give me credit for my acting skills, you’re probably the same. Americans are especially good at self-deception.<\/p>\n

Eventually, if you want something better, you’ll need to hang up your thespian<\/a> ways and the incongruent values attached. The threat is we don’t have as much time as we think we do. Floating from thing to thing doesn’t grant you more time. Nor will the deceptions of our age. The marketing messages won’t support your highest aspirations here either. As a matter of fact, those messages may tell you to keep at it, or worse, convince you of the great loss in turning around. I speak from experience.<\/p>\n

I have found great value in the following:<\/p>\n

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  1. Embrace failure like success. By no means do I think you should seek failure, but when it comes (it will) give it full embrace. Learning and grit follows this<\/li>\n
  2. Slow down and find your breath. A nod here to mindfulness<\/a> and prayer. The only way you can be who you want to be is to slow down and find it, or be found in my case<\/li>\n
  3. Find someone who isn’t afraid to call you out. Typically, this person is not impressed by you, doesn’t want or need your money and is a truth teller with love motivating<\/li>\n
  4. Be very suspicious of the marketing. Someone once told me that marketing is a lie, that reinforces the lie I tell myself<\/li>\n
  5. Get exposure to things, ideas, that are outside of your comfort. You won’t change in your comfort. No reason to…<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    My eyes are wide open and the road ahead is shorter than the road behind me. I’d like you to join me, wherever you may be found, \u00a0and live true, not incongruent.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Are you living in the incongruent? Some years ago, my life was full of incongruent statements and values. I could quickly tell you how important God was to me, and then find myself obsessing over a business meeting yet to come. The irony was not many could call me out on it. The credit for…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1785,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,6,1856,7],"tags":[731,765,823,180,1859,1860,39,1195,262,1861],"class_list":["post-1784","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-coaching","category-learning","category-life-management","category-wellbeing","tag-acting","tag-blogs","tag-epic-living","tag-eric-pennington","tag-incongruent","tag-incongruent-values","tag-life","tag-marketing-2","tag-mindfulness","tag-thespian"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1784","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1784"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1784\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1787,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1784\/revisions\/1787"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1785"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1784"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1784"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1784"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}