{"id":1858,"date":"2017-04-09T07:22:30","date_gmt":"2017-04-09T11:22:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/?p=1858"},"modified":"2017-04-09T07:25:47","modified_gmt":"2017-04-09T11:25:47","slug":"an-update-on-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/an-update-on-me\/","title":{"rendered":"An Update on Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Much has happened since my last post. Here&#8217;s an update on me:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>I&#8217;ve been seeing a counselor\/psychologist since March. Finding and working with him, has helped me immensely. The work we&#8217;re doing together is producing clarity, crossroads and breakthrough. I will reveal more in the coming weeks<\/li>\n<li>I found out, personally, how dangerous stress can be. In my case, it was about carrying too much of it. Working with a counselor has helped. I also have had to be more &#8220;on-purpose&#8221; with self-care (exercise, time with God, mindfulness, etc.). One of the negative impacts coming out for me was my blood sugar levels (diabetes related). In my last check-up, my levels were the highest they&#8217;d been in 20 years. My doctor pointed to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.everydayhealth.com\/type-1-diabetes\/stress-and-type-1-diabetes.aspx\">stress<\/a>. She also expressed her confidence in my turn around as well. The idea that I would do something about my state. It was sobering to find out that many of her patients stay in the &#8220;tangles&#8221; and don&#8217;t come out.<\/li>\n<li>The new book is going through cover-design and formatting. It should be available for pre-order soon. This period of my life has made me more grateful for the gift of writing.<\/li>\n<li>I&#8217;ve learned, and learning, that not everyone can be allowed to continue on the journey. This includes those you love. For me, maybe it&#8217;s temporary, or it could be permanent. This is tough work. You want the person to stay, but they won&#8217;t let go of things that will only lead to heartbreak. My <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thoughtco.com\/meaning-cross-the-rubicon-117548\">Rubicon<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure there is more to tell, but I&#8217;ll stop here. Stay well.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Much has happened since my last post. Here&#8217;s an update on me: I&#8217;ve been seeing a counselor\/psychologist since March. Finding and working with him, has helped me immensely. The work we&#8217;re doing together is producing clarity, crossroads and breakthrough. I will reveal more in the coming weeks I found out, personally, how dangerous stress can&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":49,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28,6,1856,29,7],"tags":[556,633,1889,43,1890,923,1891,1887,1888,428],"class_list":["post-1858","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-books","category-learning","category-life-management","category-news-and-updates","category-wellbeing","tag-author","tag-book","tag-counselor","tag-mental-health","tag-mental-well-being","tag-physical-health","tag-rubicon","tag-self-care","tag-updates","tag-writing"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1858","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1858"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1858\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1861,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1858\/revisions\/1861"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/49"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1858"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1858"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1858"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}