{"id":188,"date":"2012-10-16T06:36:00","date_gmt":"2012-10-16T06:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/are_you_restles\/"},"modified":"2012-10-16T06:36:00","modified_gmt":"2012-10-16T06:36:00","slug":"are_you_restles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/are_you_restles\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You Restless?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I heard a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.danlier.com\/10-minute-coach\/\">&quot;<\/a>motivational coach&quot; once say that people need quick coaching. &#0160;In a <a class=\"zem_slink\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Sound_bite\" rel=\"wikipedia\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Sound bite\">sound-bite<\/a> world like ours, I guess I shouldn&#39;t be surprised. Maybe he thinks that if it takes longer than ten minutes, people won&#39;t move.&#0160; Is this true for you? &#0160;Are you restless?&#0160;In some ways it is true, but I think its more a matter of leaders not giving people substance and candor. Clarity goes a long way in the creation of energy.&#0160;People rise or fall on the expectations of the leader. And certainly he or she&#39;s time spent in helping a follower matters.&#0160;<\/p>\n<p>In my experience, nothing has come easy or overnight&#8230;no matter how much I wished it would have. &#0160;The truth of what the term &quot;long run&quot; means, applies hear. You probably get that reality is far different than fantasy and we avoid the ugly truth of waiting like the plague.&#0160;<\/p>\n<p>We claim we&#39;re too busy to spend more than ten minutes to grow ourselves. &#0160;It&#39;s as if life is lived half-empty. What a mistake!&#0160; I think most are just lost and not sure where to go.&#0160; They&#39;ve given up on their dreams and are accepting a poor imitation.&#0160; Titles, money, power and the like won&#39;t fill up the vacuum inside you.&#0160; Human beings were not wired to be fulfilled by the titles, money and power.&#0160; Titles, money and power were designed to be used for the benefit of others&#8230;that&#39;s the only way they can be held in check.<\/p>\n<p>Think about the following:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Is what you&#39;re chasing really that important? <\/li>\n<li>Are your relationships suffering or growing because of what you&#39;re chasing? <\/li>\n<li>Why can&#39;t you give more than ten minutes (if that describes you) to the gift of life? <\/li>\n<li>Do you really know what your priorities are?<\/li>\n<li>Do you realise that its not all about you (see <a href=\"http:\/\/www.execupundit.com\/2007\/02\/note-from-boss-to-employees-what-some.html\">A Note from Bosses to Employees<\/a> post from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.execupundit.com\/2007\/02\/note-from-boss-to-employees-what-some.html\">Execupundit<\/a>)?<\/li>\n<li>Do you know that all of us are terminal?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I heard a &#8220;motivational coach&#8221; once say that people need quick coaching.  In a sound-bite world like ours, I guess I shouldn&#8217;t be surprised. Maybe he thinks that if it takes longer than ten minutes, people won&#8217;t move.  Is this true for you?  Are you restless?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,4,123,6],"tags":[694,693,580,593,336,691,690,689,692],"class_list":["post-188","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-business-commentary","category-coaching","category-leadership-development","category-learning","tag-candor","tag-clarity","tag-leader","tag-leaders","tag-leadership","tag-motivational-coach","tag-patience","tag-restless","tag-truth"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/188","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=188"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/188\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=188"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=188"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=188"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}