{"id":2035,"date":"2018-01-12T10:38:08","date_gmt":"2018-01-12T15:38:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/?p=2035"},"modified":"2018-01-12T10:38:08","modified_gmt":"2018-01-12T15:38:08","slug":"what-are-you-counting-on","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/what-are-you-counting-on\/","title":{"rendered":"What Are You Counting On?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/YI5zC0hHRwKXAIF4wvdCqw.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-2038\" src=\"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/YI5zC0hHRwKXAIF4wvdCqw-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/YI5zC0hHRwKXAIF4wvdCqw-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/YI5zC0hHRwKXAIF4wvdCqw-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/YI5zC0hHRwKXAIF4wvdCqw-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>What are you counting on? A simple and straightforward question. It reveals more about you and I than meets the mind.<\/p>\n<p>The things we&#8217;re counting on reveal our identity.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you&#8217;re counting on someone to make you happy. Maybe your counting on that quarterly bonus. Regardless, these things shape our identity\u00a0without notice. A subtle defining that happens slowly over time. Identity should be formed by the immovable or at a minimum something we&#8217;re willing to stake the risk on.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a brief list of what I&#8217;m counting on:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>God&#8217;s understanding<\/li>\n<li>My wife&#8217;s commitment<\/li>\n<li>My children&#8217;s love<\/li>\n<li>Friendship of a few<\/li>\n<li>Solitude<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>As you can see from my list, there are some things that could fail me. I don&#8217;t mind because I&#8217;m willing to take the risk. And oh, the heart-break that could ensue just the same. This is living.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t count on what is fleeting and temporal. Marketing often bugs us to the contrary, but that&#8217;s just selling something we really don&#8217;t need.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What are you counting on? A simple and straightforward question. It reveals more about you and I than meets the mind. The things we&#8217;re counting on reveal our identity. Maybe you&#8217;re counting on someone to make you happy. Maybe your counting on that quarterly bonus. Regardless, these things shape our identity\u00a0without notice. A subtle defining&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,1856,1,1907],"tags":[86,220,807,808,1149,274,525],"class_list":["post-2035","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-learning","category-life-management","category-uncategorized","category-well-being","tag-family","tag-god","tag-happiness","tag-happy","tag-identity","tag-love","tag-risk"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2035","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2035"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2035\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2039,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2035\/revisions\/2039"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2035"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2035"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2035"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}