{"id":220,"date":"2012-06-11T07:16:00","date_gmt":"2012-06-11T07:16:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/thoughts-on-marriage-the-winning-and-the-losing\/"},"modified":"2012-06-11T07:16:00","modified_gmt":"2012-06-11T07:16:00","slug":"thoughts-on-marriage-the-winning-and-the-losing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/thoughts-on-marriage-the-winning-and-the-losing\/","title":{"rendered":"Thoughts on Marriage-The Winning and the Losing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#39;t know if I&#39;ve ever written a post on marriage. I know I&#39;ve never written about the winning and the losing side of it. With the exception of my wife, I just haven&#39;t. Sorry.<\/p>\n<p>Marriage can be a powerful part of Epic Living.<\/p>\n<p>I happened upon this <a href=\"http:\/\/drkellyflanagan.com\/2012\/03\/02\/marriage-is-for-losers\/\" target=\"_blank\">post<\/a> while on <a class=\"zem_slink\" href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=MiYSklcTk6w\" rel=\"youtube\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Google+ Update: Share Your Favorite Circles with Others\">Google +<\/a> last week. The writer, <a href=\"http:\/\/drkellyflanagan.com\/about\/\" target=\"_blank\">Kelly Flanagan<\/a>, is a therapist practicing in <a class=\"zem_slink\" href=\"http:\/\/maps.google.com\/maps?ll=41.8561111111,-88.1083333333&amp;spn=0.1,0.1&amp;q=41.8561111111,-88.1083333333 (Wheaton%2C%20Illinois)&amp;t=h\" rel=\"geolocation\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Wheaton, Illinois\">Wheaton, Illinois<\/a>. It is by far, one of the best takes on what makes for a thriving marriage. He does an excellent job of breaking things down in a way that most anyone can unwrap. I think he&#39;s onto something that many already know; a life-long relationship is essentially about serving\/giving to the person you love. The greatest irony of this is found in the fact that you get so much more back from that serving\/giving.<\/p>\n<p>Married or not, you&#39;ll gain a lot out of his perspective. I&#39;d love to know if you see applications beyond marriage too.&#0160;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#39;t know if I&#39;ve ever written a post on marriage. I know I&#39;ve never written about the winning and the losing side of it. With the exception of my wife, I just haven&#39;t. Sorry. Marriage can be a powerful part of Epic Living. I happened upon this post while on Google + last week.&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,54],"tags":[843,845,344,847,273,720,93,844,347,841,846,842],"class_list":["post-220","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-learning","category-life-perspectives","tag-competition","tag-couples","tag-google","tag-kelly-flannagan","tag-losing","tag-marriage","tag-relationships-2","tag-serving","tag-social-media","tag-thoughts-on-marriage","tag-untangled-blog","tag-winning"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/220","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=220"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/220\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=220"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=220"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=220"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}