{"id":221,"date":"2012-06-08T10:13:45","date_gmt":"2012-06-08T10:13:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/when-winning-produces-a-loss\/"},"modified":"2012-06-08T10:13:45","modified_gmt":"2012-06-08T10:13:45","slug":"when-winning-produces-a-loss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/when-winning-produces-a-loss\/","title":{"rendered":"When Winning Produces a Loss"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a class=\"asset-img-link\" href=\"http:\/\/epicliving.blogs.com\/.a\/6a00d8341c78f953ef01761529de57970c-pi\" style=\"display: inline;\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"D Rose Injury\" border=\"0\" class=\"asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c78f953ef01761529de57970c image-full\" src=\"http:\/\/epicliving.blogs.com\/.a\/6a00d8341c78f953ef01761529de57970c-800wi\" title=\"D Rose Injury\" \/><\/a><br \/>May sound contrariain, but sometimes winning can produce a loss. From a sports perspective, your team may win the game, but if your star player goes down with an injury, that&#39;s a big loss. This can apply to life too. You know, we&#39;ve been told how great it is to be the one who&#39;s in charge or the one everyone wants to hear from. All the while forgetting the price involved.<\/p>\n<p>We&#39;ve been turned into sheep. We&#39;re led along with the herd and told what we must be. All the while being seduced into believing that all of the goods and awards make being a sheep not such a bad thing. And the longer we stay in the herd, the greater the chance we will never have the will to live differently.<\/p>\n<p>The reality is found in understanding that if we win at the expense of something very important, we will lose and that will be the lasting legacy.<\/p>\n<p>I really don&#39;t want to insult your intelligence by creating a &quot;here&#39;s how&quot; list for avoiding this plague (winning that produces loss). Truth is, most of us know what we need to do (take our spouse out on a date, begin the exercise plan, cut back on work, etc.), it&#39;s just our will and courage to do it.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#39;re in the category of not knowing, then read this <a href=\"http:\/\/epicliving.blogs.com\/epic_living\/2011\/06\/the-work-of-life.html\" target=\"_blank\">post<\/a> from awhile back for some direction.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>May sound contrariain, but sometimes winning can produce a loss. From a sports perspective, your team may win the game, but if your star player goes down with an injury, that&#39;s a big loss. This can apply to life too. You know, we&#39;ve been told how great it is to be the one who&#39;s in&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,6],"tags":[86,852,853,39,273,848,851,854,849,842,850,67],"class_list":["post-221","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-coaching","category-learning","tag-family","tag-herd","tag-herd-mentality","tag-life","tag-losing","tag-producing-loss","tag-sheep","tag-spouse","tag-win","tag-winning","tag-winning-producing-loss","tag-work"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/221","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=221"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/221\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=221"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=221"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=221"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}