{"id":409,"date":"2010-01-04T09:15:00","date_gmt":"2010-01-04T09:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/emotional-control\/"},"modified":"2010-01-04T09:15:00","modified_gmt":"2010-01-04T09:15:00","slug":"emotional-control","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/emotional-control\/","title":{"rendered":"Emotional Control"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Regardless of the business you&#39;re in, or a owner of, it&#39;s vital that you control your emotions.&#0160; Specifcially, around how you treat your customers.&#0160; Way too many organizations are led and operated by those who allow emotions to rule the day.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if you&#39;re a retailer and a customer returns a shirt because the quality and fit are not up to their expectations, don&#39;t frown with disgust because their at the return desk\/department.&#0160; It&#39;s an opportunity to grow the relationship.&#0160; Maybe there&#39;s a problem with QC at the factory where the shirts are sourced.&#0160; Don&#39;t wait until there&#39;s three boxes of returned shirts to get clued into a problem.&#0160; Customers do want to engage about your product-if you let them.<\/p>\n<p>Sadly, most employees forget (if their thinking about the customer at all) that the customer comes in expecting to be treated&#8230;less than warm.&#0160; When you or an employee confirm that expectation, the customer convinces themselves that another store is there better option.&#0160; If the employee taking the return would have been prepared (or been trained\/developed) in the art of restraint and vision, the result might be radically different.&#0160; Controlling our emotional urges requires practice.<\/p>\n<p>A friend once told me that you&#39;ll know how much a service\/product provider really cares about you when a problem arises.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you should start a program around training\/developing emotional control (EC).&#0160; Yes, your manager\/leaders will have to engage with the staff.&#0160; But that&#39;s what they should be doing anyway.&#0160; Think of what you might discover?&#0160; Your customers might discover something remarkable in a landscape full of the &quot;unremarkable.&quot;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Regardless of the business you&#39;re in, or a owner of, it&#39;s vital that you control your emotions.&#0160; Specifcially, around how you treat your customers.&#0160; Way too many organizations are led and operated by those who allow emotions to rule the day. For example, if you&#39;re a retailer and a customer returns a shirt because the&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,5,123,170],"tags":[22,1380,265,582,177],"class_list":["post-409","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-business-commentary","category-entrepreneur-advice","category-leadership-development","category-management","tag-business","tag-customer-service","tag-entrepreneurism","tag-leadership-development-2","tag-management-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/409","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=409"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/409\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=409"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=409"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=409"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}