{"id":445,"date":"2009-05-15T09:57:28","date_gmt":"2009-05-15T09:57:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/the-idea-of-pain-in-life-and-career\/"},"modified":"2009-05-15T09:57:28","modified_gmt":"2009-05-15T09:57:28","slug":"the-idea-of-pain-in-life-and-career","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/the-idea-of-pain-in-life-and-career\/","title":{"rendered":"The Idea Of Pain In Life And Career"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The following is an article\/post that really moved me.&#0160; It&#39;s a story you may know, but the lessons are timeless.&#0160; <\/p>\n<p>I found a part of myself in Mr. Jackson.<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\" class=\"MsoPlainText\" style=\"margin-right: 0px;\"><em><font><strong>Pain<\/strong><br \/>by Charles R. Swindoll<\/font><\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\" class=\"MsoPlainText\" style=\"margin-right: 0px;\"><em><font>They called him &quot;Old<br \/>\nHickory&quot; because of his tenacity and grit. His mother chose &quot;Andrew&quot; on March<br \/>\n15, 1767, when she gave birth to that independent-minded South Carolina rebel.<br \/>\nWild, quick-tempered, and disinterested in school, Andrew answered the call for<br \/>\nsoldiers to resist the British invasion at age thirteen. Shortly thereafter, he<br \/>\nwas taken prisoner. Refusing to black an enemy officer&#39;s boots, he was struck<br \/>\nwith a saber&#8212;Andrew&#39;s introduction to pain.<\/font><\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\" class=\"MsoPlainText\" style=\"margin-right: 0px;\"><em><font>Although he bore the<br \/>\nmarks of the blow for the rest of his life, Andrew&#39;s fiery disposition never<br \/>\nwaned. A fighter to the core, he chose to settle arguments in duels and lived<br \/>\nmost of his days with two bullets painfully wedged in his body. After he<br \/>\ndistinguished himself on the battlefield, his name became a national synonym for<br \/>\nvalor and stern persistence. When politics nodded in his direction, &quot;Old<br \/>\nHickory&quot; accepted the challenge: first the Senate, then nomination for<br \/>\nPresident. The shadow of pain appeared again in another form as he lost a narrow<br \/>\nrace with John Quincy Adams.<\/font><\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\" class=\"MsoPlainText\" style=\"margin-right: 0px;\"><em><font>Four years later,<br \/>\nhowever, he ran again . . . and won! But pain accompanied the victory. Two<br \/>\nmonths before he took office he lost his beloved wife, Rachel. Grief-stricken,<br \/>\nthe President-elect pressed on. Even as he was being sworn into office as our<br \/>\nnation&#39;s seventh President, he fought the anguish of a raging fever caused by an<br \/>\nabscess in the lung.<\/font><\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\" class=\"MsoPlainText\" style=\"margin-right: 0px;\"><em><font>Some time later, one<br \/>\nof the bullets within him had to be surgically removed. He endured that<br \/>\noperation&#8212;done without anesthetic&#8212;in typically courageous fashion. Even his<br \/>\npolitical career was painful. A nasty scandal split his cabinet, and critics<br \/>\nclawed at him like hungry lions. Although he stood firm for many months, the<br \/>\ntelling signs of pain began to manifest themselves. He was one of the few men<br \/>\nwho left office, however, more popular than when he came. &quot;For once, the rising<br \/>\nwas eclipsed by the setting sun,&quot; wrote a contemporary sage. And it was pain,<br \/>\nmore than any other single factor, which drew the qualities of greatness out of<br \/>\nAndrew Jackson.<\/font><\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\" class=\"MsoPlainText\" style=\"margin-right: 0px;\"><em><font>Pain humbles the<br \/>\nproud. It softens the stubborn. It melts the hard. Silently and relentlessly, it<br \/>\nwins battles deep within the lonely soul. The heart alone knows its own sorrow<br \/>\nand not another person can fully share in it. Pain operates alone; it needs no<br \/>\nassistance. It communicates its own message whether to statesman or servant,<br \/>\npreacher or prodigal, mother or child. By staying, it refuses to be ignored. By<br \/>\nhurting, it reduces its victim to profound depths of anguish. And it is at that<br \/>\nanguishing point that the sufferer either submits and learns, developing<br \/>\nmaturity and character, or resists and becomes embittered, swamped by self-pity,<br \/>\nsmothered by self-will.<\/font><\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\" class=\"MsoPlainText\" style=\"margin-right: 0px;\"><em><font>I have tried and I<br \/>\ncannot find, either in Scripture or history, a strong-willed individual whom God<br \/>\nused greatly until He allowed him to be hurt deeply.<\/font><\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\" class=\"MsoPlainText\" style=\"margin-right: 0px;\"><em><font>It was just such a<br \/>\nperson who wrote these words for all to read:<\/font><\/em><\/p>\n<blockquote dir=\"ltr\">\n<p align=\"center\" class=\"MsoPlainText\" style=\"margin-right: 0px;\"><em><font>Guests<br \/>Pain<br \/>\nknocked upon my door and said<br \/>That she had come to stay,<br \/>And though I<br \/>\nwould not welcome her<br \/>But bade her go away,<br \/>She entered in.<br \/>Like my own<br \/>\nshade<br \/>She followed after me,<br \/>And from her stabbing, stinging sword<br \/>No<br \/>\nmoment was I free.<br \/>And then one day another knocked<br \/>Most gently at my<br \/>\ndoor.<br \/>I cried, &quot;No, Pain is living here,<br \/>There is not room for<br \/>\nmore.&quot;<br \/>And then I heard His tender voice,<br \/>&quot;&#39;Tis I, be not afraid.&quot;<br \/>And<br \/>\nfrom the day He entered in,<br \/>The difference it made!<\/font><\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\" class=\"MsoPlainText\" style=\"margin-right: 0px;\"><em><font>&#8212;Martha Snell<br \/>\nNicholson<\/font><\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p align=\"left\" class=\"MsoPlainText\" style=\"margin-right: 0px;\"><em><font>&#0160;<\/font><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><font><\/font><font face=\"\" size=\"1\" style=\"font-size: 80%;\"><br \/>\n<\/font><\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\" class=\"MsoPlainText\"><em><font><\/font><span size=\"1\" style=\"font-size: 80%;\"><\/span><span size=\"1\" style=\"font-family: ;\">Excerpted from <em><a href=\"https:\/\/secure2.convio.net\/ifl\/site\/Ecommerce\/1466404097?VIEW_PRODUCT=true&amp;product_id=11861&amp;store_id=1101\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"blocked::https:\/\/secure2.convio.net\/ifl\/site\/Ecommerce\/1466404097?VIEW_PRODUCT=true&amp;product_id=11861&amp;store_id=1101\"><font face=\"\" size=\"1\" title=\"blocked::https:\/\/secure2.convio.net\/ifl\/site\/Ecommerce\/1466404097?VIEW_PRODUCT=true&amp;product_id=11861&amp;store_id=1101\">Come Before Winter and Share My Hope<\/font><\/a><\/em><\/span><\/em>, Copyright \u00a9<br \/>\n1985, 1994 by Charles R. Swindoll, Inc. All rights reserved worldwide. Used by<br \/>\npermission.<\/p>\n<p><em><br \/><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The following is an article\/post that really moved me.&#0160; It&#39;s a story you may know, but the lessons are timeless.&#0160; I found a part of myself in Mr. Jackson. Painby Charles R. Swindoll They called him &quot;Old Hickory&quot; because of his tenacity and grit. 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