{"id":647,"date":"2018-07-16T09:42:52","date_gmt":"2018-07-16T13:42:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/how-to-embrace\/"},"modified":"2018-07-16T09:41:02","modified_gmt":"2018-07-16T13:41:02","slug":"how-to-embrace-90-10-rule","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/how-to-embrace-90-10-rule\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Embrace the 90\/10 Rule"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/SplitShire-07808.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-2136\" src=\"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/SplitShire-07808-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/SplitShire-07808-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/SplitShire-07808-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/SplitShire-07808-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/02\/SplitShire-07808.jpg 1700w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>So many principles, so little time. \u00a0Today, I want to tackle the 90\/10 principle (10% is the unexpected good or bad, 90% is what you choose) in relation to our life and career.<\/p>\n<p>For many years I was told by mentors and colleagues that the 90\/10 rule was important.\u00a0 In the early years, I didn&#8217;t want to have the responsibility for 90% of my life.\u00a0 It seemed so permanent to face the consequences of my choices.\u00a0 And I certainly didn&#8217;t like the idea of the 10%.\u00a0 Who wants to be at the mercy of the unexpected?<\/p>\n<p>It was about 10 years ago that I really became conscious of the principle.\u00a0 So much so that it now is a part of my culture.\u00a0 I use the term conscious because unconscious living leads to incongruent values (I say exercise is important, but I never do it) or plain old hypocrisy.\u00a0 No judgment here, but you need to be awake.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s how to embrace the 90\/10 rule:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>You must embrace because the 90\/10 rule embraces you.\u00a0 Like it or not.<\/li>\n<li>When you embrace, your emotional intelligence goes way up.\u00a0 All of sudden you think before you act.<\/li>\n<li>You must tame the beast inside.\u00a0 Call it misplaced ambition, preoccupation with the opinions of others or greed.\u00a0 When you realize that 90% of life is what you choose, you&#8217;ll think twice about walking all over people.<\/li>\n<li>You&#8217;ll begin to think about your foundation.\u00a0 Is it sand or stone?\u00a0 When the unexpected comes what will keep you anchored?<\/li>\n<li>Embracing the rule will simplify things.\u00a0 It won&#8217;t make life easy, but it will make you decide what&#8217;s most important in career and life.<\/li>\n<li>You&#8217;ll make the breakthrough to realizing that no one\/organization can make you happy.\u00a0 Happiness is a choice (there&#8217;s that 90% again) and only you can make this one.<\/li>\n<li>You&#8217;ll stop being afraid of your destiny and get on with the mission.<\/li>\n<li>The Oscar for best <strong><em>motion picture <\/em><\/strong>should be your life.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Reach out to me if you need help or more direction.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So many principles, so little time. \u00a0Today, I want to tackle the 90\/10 principle (10% is the unexpected good or bad, 90% is what you choose) in relation to our life and career. 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