{"id":705,"date":"2007-11-15T10:23:09","date_gmt":"2007-11-15T10:23:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/taking-a-stand\/"},"modified":"2007-11-15T10:23:09","modified_gmt":"2007-11-15T10:23:09","slug":"taking-a-stand","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/taking-a-stand\/","title":{"rendered":"Taking a Stand"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In my post, <em><a href=\"http:\/\/epicliving.blogs.com\/epic_living\/2007\/11\/how-to-know-you.html\">How To Know If Your a Corporate Slave<\/a><\/em>, last week I noted that if you would lie rather than take a stand on an issue, you were either on your way or already a corporate slave.&nbsp; Before you shake your head at the transgression of untruth, don&#8217;t forget that we all can fall prey to telling lies.&nbsp; For example; &quot;I didn&#8217;t tell my boss that I disagreed with our company&#8217;s approach to succession planning, because he said we&#8217;re world class in succession planning.&nbsp; I know I agreed with him when I was asked, but now is not the right time to take a stand.&nbsp; We have a one-on-one next week anyway&#8230;I&#8217;ll tell him then.&quot;&nbsp; Sound familiar?<\/p>\n<p>The above example is to illustrate how we voluntarily kill our freedoms and kill our integrity when we choose to lie and not take a stand-no matter how unpopular.&nbsp; It&#8217;s not lost on me that some consultants\/coaches\/experts might say that the example really wasn&#8217;t lying it was using keen strategy to maneuver inside of a <em><strong><span style=\"color: #cc0033;\">matrix<\/span><\/strong> <\/em>organization.&nbsp; BULLOGNE!<\/p>\n<p>Could it be that we&#8217;ve even distorted what a lie is?&nbsp; Have we compartmentalized things to the degree that we&#8217;ll pick and choose when a lie is needed?&nbsp; Sadly, many have and the numbers are growing.&nbsp; Some very well intentioned (albeit enslaved) people don&#8217;t realize what their trading in this corporate game.&nbsp; We all trade something.&nbsp; The question is; can you live with what you&#8217;ve traded away?&nbsp; Do you even know what you&#8217;ve traded?<\/p>\n<p>The answer is; you&#8217;ve trade your freedom&#8230;the following are the things\/opportunities you&#8217;ve traded away:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Freedom to be authentic (who you really are). <\/li>\n<li>Freedom to tell the truth.&nbsp; <\/li>\n<li>Freedom to care about your work (the discipline you were wired to do). <\/li>\n<li>Freedom to lead others. <\/li>\n<li>Freedom to help your organization-really help. <\/li>\n<li>Freedom to be an advocate for your customers. <\/li>\n<li>Freedom to leave (your organization) something that isn&#8217;t working. <\/li>\n<li>Freedom to pursue what you&#8217;ve been ignoring all your life. <\/li>\n<li>Freedom to find out that life is most important-not career. <\/li>\n<li>Freedom to wake up.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>There are specific strategies (not lies) that I teach clients on &quot;turning around.&quot;&nbsp; Here are three:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Stop what you&#8217;re doing and make a decision about what you want the rest of your story (life, legacy, career, family, God) to look like. <\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t kid yourself, depending on how enslaved you are, this will not be an easy road. <\/li>\n<li>Get some people (people who believe in truth) to help you on the long journey ahead.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In my post, How To Know If Your a Corporate Slave, last week I noted that if you would lie rather than take a stand on an issue, you were either on your way or already a corporate slave.&nbsp; Before you shake your head at the transgression of untruth, don&#8217;t forget that we all can&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-705","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/705","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=705"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/705\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=705"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=705"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=705"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}