{"id":966,"date":"2005-12-19T09:50:00","date_gmt":"2005-12-19T09:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/a_powerful_illu\/"},"modified":"2005-12-19T09:50:00","modified_gmt":"2005-12-19T09:50:00","slug":"a_powerful_illu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/a_powerful_illu\/","title":{"rendered":"A Powerful Illustration of Influence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As you know, many organizations (profit and non-profit) consider &quot;leadership&quot; to be a soft skill.&nbsp; Soft, in this case, meaning not a high priority.&nbsp; I&#8217;ve written many things about the danger of this perspective.&nbsp; Mostly about the power of influence, which describes leadership.<\/p>\n<p>A powerful lesson in leadership can be found in a real life experience that I encountered a few days ago.&nbsp; A gentleman I know was attending a Christmas service that I was at as well.&nbsp; I hadn&#8217;t seen him for some time, but his presence was obviously for his daughter.&nbsp; The family had split through divorce.&nbsp; I think he had his arm around her the entire service.&nbsp; Not surprising&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>The daughter rose and left the sanctuary to prepare for a choral performance.&nbsp; Minutes later I noticed her return and join the other youth in procession down the aisle.&nbsp; What struck me was her steady gaze at her father.&nbsp; Almost a; &quot;Dad do you see me&#8230;do I matter?&quot;&nbsp; And though I couldn&#8217;t read her mind, the look was very telling.&nbsp; Maybe you&#8217;ve seen the look.<\/p>\n<p>Whether we choose to believe it or not, leadership is powerful.&nbsp; A father, a mother, a CEO, they all speak to this.&nbsp; Don&#8217;t fail in the art&#8230;you may change the world..for the good or the bad.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As you know, many organizations (profit and non-profit) consider &quot;leadership&quot; to be a soft skill.&nbsp; Soft, in this case, meaning not a high priority.&nbsp; I&#8217;ve written many things about the danger of this perspective.&nbsp; Mostly about the power of influence, which describes leadership. A powerful lesson in leadership can be found in a real life&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-966","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/966","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=966"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/966\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=966"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=966"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.epicliving.com\/epic\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=966"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}